Monday, November 09, 2026

NEW INC. MAGAZINE COLUMN FROM HOWARD TULLMAN

 

Your Best Employees Are Always in Play. Another Retention Bonus Won’t Keep Them

The single most corrosive sentence you’ll hear from a talented person is that they have no idea of what their future is at the company.

 

EXPERT OPINION BY HOWARD TULLMAN, GENERAL MANAGING PARTNER, G2T3V AND CHICAGO HIGH TECH INVESTORS @TULLMAN

Every successful business builder I know brags about his passionate and dedicated team. Deep talent, contagious commitment, and lifetime loyalty. But when key players pick up and abruptly leave, the owners and managers are still shocked. This isn’t a new occurrence. For decades, just when a company started to hit its stride and grow, the first folks who showed up weren’t more customers. They were recruiters.

Even your best employees aren’t wholly resistant to the sometimes-bogus blandishments and promises of big bucks being constantly whispered in their ears. While eager entrepreneurs may think their company is one big family, their employees know it’s a business like any other and that, while they may love the company, it rarely loves them back. Just ask the 25 percent of Microsoft employees—60,000 individuals worldwide—who just got buyout offers last week.

And with the constantly mounting pressure today to find qualified A.I. experts and senior technical people in general, and lots of stupid VC cash floating around, many businesses are finding that poaching is a lot better, faster, and even cheaper in the long run than waiting years while they try to grow their own in-house skill sets. In physical labor, the best workers are twice as productive as the ordinary ones, but in creative work and building the future, the best people are ten times more valuable than the average ones. One rabbit beats a dozen turtles.

To be perfectly honest, you can’t outlaw poaching, you can’t shame it out of existence, and you can’t keep trying to paper over it with another one-off retention bonus. If your team leaders are getting picked off, that’s a lagging indicator that you waited too long to work on and keep upping the ante on the basics: trust, transparency, development, and real opportunity. Retaining key employees isn’t robbing the bank to pay them or building a higher wall to keep them. It’s about building a better place.

Retention isn’t a periodic emergency—it’s got to be a daily discipline and a central part of your overall business plan. Your best people are always in play. They
are visible, valuable, and constantly being told by outsiders how under-appreciated they must be. You can’t kill the conversations, but you can try your best to make staying with you the smartest, safest, and most satisfying choice for your key employees.

Here’s how I would work to actually move the needle in your direction.

Step 1: Plan and document a progress path for each team member

The single most corrosive sentence you’ll hear from a talented person is that they have no idea of what their future is at the company. The moment they’re worried about that, they’re already halfway out the door. Every key player needs a written, specific progress path. Not a generic career ladder pasted off an HR site, but a real plan with names, dates, and milestones. What new responsibilities do they take on in the next 6–12–18 months? What skills do they need to build? What has to be true for them to move from where they are to the next level of impact and compensation?

A written path does three powerful things. First, it proves you’re paying attention. Second, it creates a shared scoreboard you can both point to. Third, it forces you to decide who are actually “key” players.

No one should have to guess what “good” looks like or where they could be in two years if they keep delivering. If you haven’t mapped that with them, someone else is already doing it for you.

Step 2: Share the vision, what it will take, and why it’s worth it

High performers want three answers: Where are we going? What will it really take to get there? And why should I care enough to give you my best years?
Your key people want specifics. What does the next phase of this business actually look like? How hard is it going to be? What trade-offs are we really making? And where do they personally fit into that story?

You also have to explain why it’s worth it in concrete terms that matter to them: the kind of company they’ll help build, the customers they’ll impact, the skills, equity, and credibility they’ll walk away with.

If your story is constantly shifting, and the recruiter’s story is sharp, simple, and compelling, you lose. Retention is a narrative contest. The company with the clearest and most honest story about the future usually wins. The irony is that telling the truth—even when it’s tough—actually helps. Saying that this next year is going to be brutal, but if we nail it, here’s what changes for the company and for you is dramatically more attractive to serious talent than pretending everything is easy.

Step 3: Provide the tools, training, and resources they need to succeed

Nothing burns people out faster than being held accountable for outcomes without the tools to achieve them. Your best people are naturally hard on themselves. They don’t need you to pile on. What they do need is for you to arm them properly. That means current hardware and software, current data, access to decision-makers, and the authority to actually fix what they’re responsible for.

It also means real training. Not once-a-year compliance theater, but targeted skill-building that matches their progress paths. If you say someone is on a path to run a larger team, what leadership and management training are they getting now? If you say they’re being groomed to own a product line, what financial, market, and strategic exposure are you giving them?

The people who are most frustrated by lousy tools and broken processes are your highest performers. Mediocre players can live with mess. Great people cannot. If you don’t fix the friction, someone else will invite them to go do great work on a cleaner playing field.

Step 4: Monitor and measure progress and provide regular feedback

A written path and a shared vision are only useful if you keep coming back to them. You need a simple, visible system for monitoring progress and giving real-time feedback. The cadence has to be regular and predictable. Monthly or at least quarterly, you sit down one-on-one and look at the path you documented together. What’s on track, what’s behind, what got in the way, and what needs to change on both sides?

The feedback has to be specific and bilateral. You tell them exactly what they’re doing that is making a difference, what’s not acceptable, and what “better” looks like. And then—and this is where most managers fail—you ask them what they need from you and from the company to move faster.

High performers crave clarity. They don’t want to be surprised when you finally confess that you’ve been unhappy with their performance. They want the early warning, the coaching, and the chance to fix it. If your strongest people only hear from you when there’s a fire drill or when you need a favor, they’ll eventually conclude that their growth is not a priority.

Step 5: Recognize and reward the best—and boot the rest

This is the step where most leaders drop the ball because they’re conflict avoiders. You can’t retain A players in a system that tolerates C behavior. Recognition is comparative. Your best people are always running their own internal scorecard. They’re watching who gets promoted, who gets the stretch assignments, who gets the raises and options, and yes, who never seems to face consequences for chronic under-performance.

You need visible, meaningful rewards for top performance: faster advancement, more autonomy, richer learning opportunities, real economic participation in the value they create. This means real differentiation. Your message has to be unmistakable: excellence is noticed here and paid for here.

On the other hand, you have to be willing to move out the chronic low performers, the cultural terrorists, and the coasters. Keeping them around to avoid conflict is one of the most expensive retention mistakes you can make. Nothing drives stars away faster than being forced to carry people who don’t care and won’t change.
“Boot the rest” doesn’t mean heartless, impulsive firing. It means honest performance management, tight standards, clear expectations, and real consequences. When your best people see that you’re serious about who gets to stay on the bus, they’re far more likely to keep betting on you.

Richard Branson said it best and it’s still the most succinct formula for success: “Train people well enough so they can leave; treat them well enough so they don’t want to”. To which I’d add: “Be a place that keeps its promises” and the rest will take care of itself.